I don’t know if anyone else has had this experience – but after the wedding, when all our fabulous friends FINALLY got together and met – they’re getting together without US!
What the hell man?!
Our LA friends are planning a roadtrip to see our San Francisco friends in September. Did they invite us? No. Well, not until the Best Man dropped out to take the GRE at the last minute.
Then I just saw our two – originally separate – San Francisco friend groups in the same photo on Facebook, having a blast at a swanky party.
I’m super glad everyone had such a great time, and I’ve been saying for years that our friends oughtta know each other (because they are awesomely cool people, and all awesomely cool people should know each other), but – did our invitations get lost in the mail?
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Anyways, Rogue Wedding was a truly awesome party. Spending two nights straight creating the perfect seating chart and two weeks planning the playlist seems to have resulted in at least one hook-up, one road trip, and multiple friendships. And, even the most surly of our elderly out of town guests came back grinning and saying “That was the best party ever!” That is, really, the best you can hope for with a wedding. I’m intensely proud, and yeah, this post is half me bragging about the best party we’ve ever thrown.
But the other half of this post is me thinking “WTF people? At least invite us along!”



Technically, you invited yourself!! Lol.
But bad jokes aside, Im a little surprised about the sentiment conveyed in this post.
We mentioned or I mentioned the trip to you several times (even before it was a reality) but neither one of you said anything about being interested in going, ever.
is our friendship so formal that you guys need an official invitation? I’ll remember this for the future. But when we talk about Vegas, you’ve said ” we gotta go together” but you didn’t this time when I mentioned SF.
I know you’re being funny for your blog, and I get it, but meh.
Signed,
LA friend
Dude, don’t get your panties in a twist over this post please. I am waaaay too tired and stressed to deal with more drama right now, and nothing I write here is intended to offend anybody anyways. Rogue Husband and I are stoked that our friends are getting along so well (y’all should!), but yeah, we’re kinda bummed that we aren’t partying it up with you guys. We’re busy, it’s true, and we’ve certainly depleted our vacation days, but sometimes we feel out of the loop while everyone else is having fun.
yeah, yeah, yeah… I get it. I got it the first time around too. bah.
we should get together when I’m back. As I mentioned when I came over in July, I’m generally free on weekends. Let me know which ones work for you guys and let’s make this happen.
I’m totally down for that – wish I could see you guys on the 8th! But – yep – busy. San Diego this time. Next week, Portland. But after that!